Well, here's another story from the life and times of
Togopal (that's me by the way). Please let me start by saying that I am in no way making light of a very sad situation that has taken place here, I am only telling you about the part that was unique to me and my attendance at this particular funeral yesterday.
One of the gardeners here at the compound passed away yesterday morning after being diagnosed with cancer about 6 weeks ago. Please pray for his pregnant wife and their 2 small children.
Here's where my story begins...
One of the missionaries here asked me to go with her to his funeral. I told her that I didn't really know him but she said she didn't want to go alone so I, being the incredibly nice person that I am, went along. The service was nice and the gospel was clearly presented to the packed church. After the service we all exited the church to go to the graveside (similar to in the US). The difference here though is that most people do not have a car so we all walked to the cemetery.
I have seen a cemetery close to that particular church and, silly me, I simply assumed we were walking to one that was "just across the street." Well, we set out and with the dark clouds looming overhead and the boom of thunder in the distance I thought to myself, "I think we're going to get wet." Getting wet is really no problem for me though because my mom has assured me many times that I will not melt.
We walked quite a way and then took a right at a little cluster of huts and continued to walk back into the woods. The path kept getting more and more narrow as we walked and then we hung a left into what I would call "the dense forest" but then again I may be
exaggerating (but I don't think so). As we were walking back into the woods pushing bushes and branches out of our faces I thought to myself where are they burying this guy? Will they ever be able to find his grave again? Should we be dropping little crumbs of cookies or something in case anyone ever wants to reach this place again?
All of the sudden my thoughts quickly turned to the fact that my feet were on fire (keep in mind we wear flip flops here) and I looked down and there were ants all over my feet. By this time the pastor was praying and I was marching like the tuba player in a high school band during halftime. I told myself not to freak out but then I started feeling bites on my back and then in the front of my shirt where, by the way, ants should never be.
Anyway, I had to gracefully (yeah right) exit stage left and get outta there! To make this story just a little more interesting, it started to rain, I had to go to the bathroom really bad and we still had quite a long walk ahead of us. I made it through the village and back out to the main road where a motorcycle taxi man was just dropping someone off. I flagged him down, jumped on the back, burned the back of my leg on the exhaust and away we went!
Now, I've got ants in my pants (or skirt in this case), I've gotta go to the bathroom, I'm being pelted by rain on the back of a motorcycle praying that we do not crash, the back of my leg is now on fire from the exhaust burn and to add insult to injury my hair was getting wet!
I did make it back to the compound only to realize that I did not have the key to my apartment with me and I also had no change in my pocket to pay the man. So I motioned for one of the Togolese maintenance men to come over and he very kindly gave me the 100
cfa (which is about 24 cents) needed to pay the man, found Kevin who gave me his key to the apartment and then booked it home to take care of my little ant and bathroom situation.
Well, you know what they say..."
All's well that ends well." Just another adventure to share. I'm sure I'll never attend another funeral quite like that one.